Are you facing an obstacle in your life that feels too big to overcome?
Are you overwhelmed in your personal or professional life, or both? Are you struggling with divorce or your love life in general, wondering how you got to this place and what to do about it?
Have you reached a point in your life where you feel your choices cannot be undone and you are simply stuck and don't know how to find your joy anymore?
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
So many women are experiencing feelings of "Is this all there is?" "How can I overcome this challenge when I've tried everything?" "I feel sad and frustrated and I can't see how my life can change--I'm just stuck where I am."
Your life CAN change. It is not too late. You deserve to invest in yourself to transform this one life you are living. My clients get real results and say that they feel better and start to see a new way forward after just our first month together.
Would you like to feel better a month from now? Explore if coaching with me is right for you!
Click below to schedule a 30 minute complimentary "discovery" call with me to determine if we are a coaching match. No obligation and no pressure. I believe in the law of attraction and therefore coaching should never be forced. I encourage you to take the first step to understand how your life can transform, whether I help you or someone else is a better fit. I am excited to speak with you.
When was the last time you invested in your own needs?
As working women, entrepreneurs, mothers. stay-at-home moms, wives, friends and adult daughters...there are major life events, changes and challenges that unexpectedly happen for which we truly need expert guidance.
"Working with Stefani as a coach is one of the best things I have done for myself. She has a natural talent for honing in on key areas that need to be addressed in order to break through blockers and uncover aha moments. Her guidance and coaching advice is tailored to you and your unique needs. She is genuine, caring and supportive with an objective point of view which provides a "safe space" to be vulnerable." -Michelle M., St. Louis, MO
If any of these areas resonate with you and you KNOW it's time to try a new way of being and loving, then one of Stefani's courses will be life-changing for you! Certified Life Coach, Stefani Seek, is ready to help you in the following areas:
A challenging life situation you never dreamed of experiencing. Now you feel sad, stuck, frustrated, surprised... and you aren't sure what to do to overcome.
Regaining control of your life: end people-pleasing, learn to say YES for yourself, and discover how to set boundaries that will stick, giving you back time and restoring your peace of mind.
Hi, I'm Stefani Seek. I help women like you navigate challenging life circumstances so you can feel better, reconnect with your inner voice, find joy, and create the life you really want and deserve!
It might seem intimidating or you might think you don't deserve to hire a "coach", but more and more, women from all walks of life are realizing that they need someone to talk to who can see their situations clearly, without bias. And not only just to talk to, but to provide practical guidance on how to find direction and get out of ruts, heal from hurts, and feel happy and healthy again.
Many of us are blessed with great sisters, girlfriends, moms, husbands, partners...but we don't want to unload all of our thoughts and emotions on those people closest to us. Some of us also experience the pain or loneliness of having someone close to us who doesn't or won't empathize with the circumstances that are causing frustration, sadness, worry, or exhaustion. As your experienced and Certified Life Coach, I am an empathetic third party who can see your situation clearly and provide you a clear path forward.
The women I work with face challenges that they never expected to encounter. From painful situations where life isn't working out the way they thought it would, to mid-life "uh-oh" thoughts around careers or relationships that are no longer fulfilling, I serve as your Guide to help you rediscover and reconnect with the life that you are MEANT to create for yourself. We actually chart a course that lifts you up and moves you forward! After three months of working together, one of my clients, Carrie, from Ohio, said:
"You've literally helped me transform my life. So many new doors are now opening for me and I'm not losing sleep anymore! I feel content and happy again, and I have hope for my future!"
I know how sad and frustrating it can feel when life doesn't go "according to plan." I got married at age 23 to my college sweetheart, had a beautiful daughter, and then things turned very dark in my marriage. I found myself divorced with a four-year old at age 28. And then, I dated and married the person to whom I thought I'd be married for life, and I found myself in the type of relationship that was devastating to my heart. Amidst all of this, I was in a high-pressure, intense corporate leadership role, burning the candle at both ends. I felt like I had messed up my ENTIRE LIFE.
By the grace of the universe, I started setting new intentions and new dreams for myself. Doors began opening as I learned from experts. I underwent a spiritual transformation, releasing old weights. I fulfilled a lifelong dream of becoming a published author. I am at a healthy weight and fitness level, releasing a sugar addiction of nearly three decades. I became a Certified Life Coach. I attracted the love of my life in 2021 and it is the mutually-respectful, loving and fulfilling relationship that has exceeded my greatest desires. I quit corporate America and I'm now a successful business owner, making my own schedule and creating the life I want.
The promising news is this: It is in the challenging contrast we experience that we create new hopes and desires!
I encourage and empower my three daughters with these words:
You can always change your mind!
We are the co-creators of our lives. I will teach you how to create for yourself, and day by day, your life will begin to transform in amazing ways.
Coaching is a true partnership between you and me.
The only requirements are that: 1. We have good synergy and connection upon first meeting. 2. You are willing to learn something new. 3. You are willing to believe that you can feel better. 4. You are willing to invest in yourself.
Click below to schedule a complimentary 30-minute session with me.
We'll discuss how you want to change your life and uncover if we are the right fit for each other. I accept a limited amount of clients each month as I am just one person, so it is important to determine if we are the right fit. I am excited to meet you!
The Love Compass was born from a desire to help women navigate dating and relationship challenges to find real, authentic love. Although I found success in my career, I experienced two marriages and two divorces in just two decades! I knew there had to be a higher purpose in the heartbreak by sharing where I made mistakes, where I didn't show up for myself, and imparting how YOU can avoid those same mistakes and find a clearer path to the love you crave.
This book is perfect for:
Late teens and women in your 20s just beginning to find romantic relationships
Women in your 30s and 40s who want to start dating again following a divorce or separation.
My heartfelt and relatable stories, lessons learned and mini-journaling exercises will help you reset and refresh how you approach dating and relationships. This easy-to-read book will bring about life-changing ways on how you experience relationships and how you can learn to express your authentic voice, so you attract the mate your heart desires.
This is an incredible book that I highly recommend everyone should read. Stefani goes into great detail across different chapters opening your eyes into boundaries, prioritizing your needs, choosing the right guys for you, and has exercises at the end of each chapter. It allows you to do a lot of self reflection and get to a place of strong worthiness and inner knowing of what you really want. This was very eye opening and also helped me strengthen my beliefs around love." -Paige R., San Francisco, CA
By the end of the book, you will be able to identify what you value in a romantic partnership, understand and articulate boundaries, have scripts in hand for talking through difficult situations with your partner, and develop a "compass" to identify your true North . . . which isself-love first, above all things.
The Love Compass will help you rediscover and find your heart's calling in relationships and will serve as an ongoing guide through your many stages of dating, mating and loving!
Guidance
For women going through a divorce or separation looking for the brighter future ahead.
Candor
Stories to help you remember your heart's calling in a relationship.
Love
Identifying values in a romantic partnership and how to articulate boundaries.
I made the mistake of feeling one primary feeling after my first divorce…lonely. I let that feeling drive my new dating habits, which included latching on to the first quality guy who erased that feeling of loneliness. But boy, did I miss getting in tune with many other feelings I wish I had realized were going on inside of my brain and heart. And ironically, lonely was exactly how I felt as our marriage was ending. I rooted the relationship in the primary feeling of “lonely”, and that was exactly what I got in the end.
Thank you for stopping by! I wonder--how many of you out there are exhausted by dating? You could be 19 or 59... and worn out by the process for various reasons. It was only a couple of years ago when I launched myself back into dating following my second divorce. Eek. I hovered between a […]
It's only January 2, and my email and Instagram have been inundated with messages like "Your Dating Resolutions for 2023" and "How to find the right man in 2023". Insert eye roll {here}! I'm wondering--are you a single woman who rang in the New Year a little sad or frustrated that you are not in […]
Thank you for visiting my site! The Love Compass book is my passion project to help thousands of young women find their authentic voice in relationships. I was inspired by college women asking me for guidance on how to navigate difficult discussions with their boyfriends. When told that I should put my advice into a book, that sparked the idea to go much deeper into providing a guide to help you navigate the tricky and awesome world of dating and relationships.
I get very vulnerable sharing my stories of dating, life lessons, marriages, and divorces with the hope of helping you discover your true voice more quickly than I did! While this book was written with women in their 20's in mind, many women in their 30's, 40's and even 50's have told me that they want this book too! If you'd like to have a virtual or in-person discussion group for your book club, team, sorority, social club, or other organization where women's needs are cherished and nurtured, contact me and let's make that happen!
